**Divorced dad finds new love: ‘My sex life is separate from fatherhood’**

A casual arrangement has grown into something deeper for Shani and Can, a couple who prefer to focus on the present. “I used to tell people I could only offer them adventure,” Can says. “But with Shani, that wasn’t true.” The pair, who met after Can’s divorce, keep their romantic and family lives separate. For Can, a father of two, this separation is key. “My sex life with her is completely separate to my life as a divorced father,” he explains. Both are content with their arrangement, which they describe as a natural evolution from a casual start. They do not plan for the long term but instead “live in the moment,” according to Can. Shani agrees. “We don’t put pressure on the future,” she says. “What we have works, and we’re happy.” The couple’s story is part of a series where readers share intimate details of their relationships.